This is a good website on Equally Shared Parenting that I came across....
“Imagine a life without having to choose between a meaningful career and enough time with your children. Envision that while you are at work, your wonderful children are safe, happy, healthy and growing in the care of someone who loves them just as much as you do. At home, you spend many hours with them each week to connect with and nurture them. There is plenty of time for yourself and your favorite hobbies as well, and you never have to do more than half of the housework. The burden of earning the family’s income no longer falls on just one of you. You are fully competent as a parent rather than an understudy or manager to your spouse, and you have an energized marriage with a fun and happy partner. Are you laughing at this unrealistic dream? Or are you thinking 'please help me get that'?....”
Read more >> http://www.equallysharedparenting.com/WhatIs.htm